How P.T. Barnum Made Women Come To Him.. (his subconscious trick)..
by Jason Capital, World's #1 Dating Coach
How do you really command a woman’s attention and make her come to you? Discover P.T. Barnum's 145-year old subconscious secret for doing just that inside here today..
Greetings soldier.
Beautiful Monday for a bunch of badasses like us to dominate their path, tease hot girls and generally not give a fvck, eh?
Just look at that world out there..
Exciting Shit..
Ripe for YOUR taking..
Begging for you to penetrate it, hard, fast, thick.
Plus! I’ve got value to deposit in that brain of yours.
What is it?
It combines a legendary advertising tale and the real secret behind commanding the attention of attractive females, making them come to you (this is a secret that mainstream media would hate if you discovered it, so let’s really go deep into it today and make sure you understand it completely by the end).
Pop Question:
Ever heard of PT Barnum?
Most people know a little about Barnum, mostly for his circus (which is like saying you know Jay-Z from that one single he did with Rihanna).
But the cleverest souls today know EVERYTHING about Barnum..
Barnum was recognized as the "Shakespeare of Advertising” because he invented it.
Sure, some had been done before but not like he did it..
Who Was P.T. Barnum Really?
Here’s a sexual analogy to describe PT Barnum's impact on attention-getting techniques and methods:
Before he came around, it was like everyone only fvcked in missionary, at a leisurely cadence.
After, girls were sucking dick, taking multiple cocks, double-teaming guys, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, doggie, public sex, money shots - the works.
He took the world of advertising and attention-getting from a pointy A-Cup to a voluptuous D-Cup.
He was also the second, self-made millionaire in America, ever (after Benjamin Franklin).
He's The Well-Hung Father Of Modern Media..
There are two epic things Barnum knew that I want to make sure you get today too.
Ready?
Splendid.
Thing 1: Barnum knew there was no such thing as "good" or "bad" attention.
I love this about him and remember it often myself.
He once said, "Every crowd has a silver lining," and it's true, so long as you leverage the crowd.
Give him an angry mob of people calling him a fraud or liar, and he'd turn them into lifetime customers.
Love The Angry Mob..
That's because he was NOT AFFECTED by their judgements or emotional turbulence.
He was DETACHED from such day-to-day transience, and maintained his focus on his purpose:
Turning the masses into his customers.
(This is the beautiful manifestation of High-Status State Control btw, used on a massive, hugely profitable scale.)
I remember reading about him once, where he put on a hypnotism show, but didn't know hypnosis..
The Hypnotist Who Couldn't Hypnotize..
So he brought a girl on stage, and failed over and over again to put her in a trance.
The crowd was getting bored and angry, demanding for their money back.
Finally, annoyed to the gills, he said, "You don't believe me? Fine! I'll cut this girl's arm off right now, and she won't react at all. That'll prove she's really under right now."
The girl jumped off the stage immediately, never to be seen again (rumor has it she met a Team Capital VIP Member at the local pub, where told her she had a really cute, naive vibe about, and outraged, to prove him wrong, she took him to the bathroom where she begged for his Team Capital dick, all up in her mouth.Wise, wise girl.)
But that's not the point..
This is:
After she leapt off the stage..
How do you suppose the crowd reacted?
Their cries for their money back stopped.
And instead..
They laughed.
They couldn't help it.
They cheered for more.
Pro Questions For You:
Can you think of an instance recently in your life where you let negative attention distract you from your purpose?
What would Barnum have done in that situation?
Would he have given a shit?
Or would he have thought of multiple ways instead, to leverage that attention and flip it on it's fvcking ear?
What are three things you think Barnum might have done in the same situation?
Which of those will you use the next time the same or similar situation arises?
So that's thing 1.
But I'm Jason Capital.
And so the legendary value continues..
Thing 2: In my best-seller Make Women Want You, I talk about the irresistible power of Incongruity Theory for commanding a girl's attention..
What grabs her attention?
What grabs our attention?
Is it louder, bigger, faster, stronger stimuli?
Sometimes.
But not typically.
The Real Secret To
Arresting Her Attention..
The real secret to arresting a chick's attention (or anyone for that matter) is ENVIRONMENTAL
INCONGRUENCE.
Things that don't quite fit, or stand out from the crowd.
Mystery, in his 8-inch heels and feather boa, stands out in an everyday restaurant.
He is INCONGRUENT with the environment, and people/girls can't help but stare.
But put him in a circus show, and he fits right in.
He is CONGRUENT with the environment.
No girls or people really notice, or even care to notice.
And even if you made his heels 12-inches and gave him THREE (!) feather boas, he still wouldn't grab much more attention there.
When Louder Stops Working..
That's because trying to outscream or out-loud the competition doesn't work.
Incongruity does.
Barnum knew this 145 years ago, when he first opened up his museum and wanted to attract attention/visitors to it.
The story goes like this..
"Barnum knew the power of mystery. An unemployed man came to his museum and asked Barnum for a job. Barnum handed the man five bricks and instructed him to solemnly place the bricks in various places around the outside of the museum.
As he went from spot to spot, he was to replace the brick at each spot with another
one that he was carrying. He was to answer no questions, speak to no one, and seem to be deaf and dumb.
Once an hour, he was to enter the museum, walk right next to the ticket taker, seem to pay the fee, and then proceed through the museum and out the door.
A crowd began to form, watching the man and wondering what he was doing. Many of the crowds followed him into the museum just to see what was going on. In fact, the police had to ask Barnum to stop the man, because the crowds that he was creating were stopping traffic."
Badass, right?
While everyone else was trying to trumpet their horns louder (trying to out-loud the competition, but remaining congruent)..
..Barnum just used a few, quiet bricks to shut the fvcking street down.
Your Mission Today..
So your mission today, action-taker, is this:
What area of your life are you "too congruent" with everyone else right now?
Is it your style?
Your haircut?
Your verbal game?
In My Own Life..
Here's one thing I noticed recently in my own life:
I had become all "attraction game" with one of the girls I was fvcking.
No emotional connection stuff, no us just hanging out and vibing.
They had become used to that with me, and anything over and over again like that - even if it's remarkable - will lose its zest over time, if you don't switch it up.
So I Did..
Last time I saw her, I was totally laid-back, lots of basic qualifying, lots of leading questions, I really said almost nothing, save for a couple stories.
Within 30 minutes, she was melting hot and physically violating me in all my fav ways.
Incongruity Theory.
One of my most important seduction concepts for sure.
I'm out.
But BEWARE my friend!
Although Incongruity Theory is awesome, I need you to know that I've discovered that there are at least 3 other popular behaviors that most guys have been told are "attractive" but actually turn women off and kill sexual attraction dead on the spot!
Avoid these 3 "popular" behaviors that actually
KILL female attraction dead on the spot by
watching this urgent video on the next page:
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